In a year of change for Brentford, Kevin O’Connor’s loyalty and longevity are more valuable than ever.
O’Connor joined the club as a schoolboy in 1997 and went on to play 501 games for the Bees. He has since become an important member of the club’s first-team coaching staff.
O’Connor reflects on the moments and people that shaped his football career in a letter to his 17-year-old self, which will be published during Brentford’s match program against Bournemouth.
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Read the excerpt below.
When you return in April, Brentford are fighting for a place in the Championship.
Ultimately, it all comes down to a home game against Doncaster on the final day of the season.
Brentford start the afternoon in third place, two points behind second-placed Doncaster. Our mission is simple: win and get promoted.
In the 4th minute of stoppage time, there was still no goal in the game. Tumani Diaguraga was brought down in the penalty area and the referee took a penalty kick.
Now, this is an event you’ll be asked about a lot.
Before the last game against Hartlepool, Uwe would say to you and Trotta: “You two can take penalties today.” That was the rest.
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You’re ready to take the punishment. Of course, you’ll be nervous as this kick will define Brentford’s season – but you’ll be ready.
You’ve done your research on Doncaster goalkeeper Neil Sullivan, so you have a good idea of which direction he’s going to save.
When you go upfield from the center back, Trotz gets the ball. You understand why he takes the penalty, but you are his captain and you want him to pass the ball to you.
He doesn’t know.
Trotz kept saying, “I accept it, I accept it!”
Clayton Donaldson stepped in: “Leave it alone, leave it alone!”
what do I do? Should I take the ball away from him or keep it?
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At that moment, you leave it. This is a bad situation and your decision to create more scenarios doesn’t do you or him any good.
Trotta’s penalty hit the crossbar and Doncaster fought hard at the other end to score the winner to send us into the play-offs.
Brentford reached Wembley having beaten Swindon over two legs, but the season ended with a 2-1 loss to Yeovil.
Many people will have their say on the Doncaster match. The truth will be distorted and some comments will irritate you.
Ultimately, people can think whatever they want.
Your regret is not accepting that punishment. that is your At that moment – it should be you.
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Also in your Brentford vs. Bournemouth program
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From the dugout: Keith Andrews previews our final game of 2025
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Opposition: An inside look at Andoni Iraola’s team
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Big Ben Burgess’ big game preview
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Nathan Catton column: Brentford-supporting comedian offers his thoughts
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100 Years of Red and White: An in-depth interview with former Bees forward Miles Weston
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