After decades of marriage, I got divorced at the age of 60. The breakup was amicable and we split our retirement savings equally, leaving me with about $600,000 from about $1.2 million in savings.
Assuming those numbers seemed feasible at the time. The plan is to retire at 65, and it seems like I could retire on a similar schedule myself. We sold our house earlier than expected and separated our finances, which changed the way I handle expenses.
The divorce prompted several financial decisions. What was once a shared expense became my responsibility. Flexibility has shrunk, and my retirement plan relies on steady income, predictable spending, and good health.
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I focus on maintaining the plan rather than revisiting big decisions, and retirement still feels manageable, even if it no longer looks like what I originally imagined.
Now let’s say I have a heart attack the following year and need hospitalization. Rehab disrupted my ability to continue working and made future income more uncertain.
Until then, I plan to delay taking Social Security to get a higher monthly benefit. After my heart attack, I had to rethink this plan. Filing a claim at age 62 will permanently reduce payments, with delayed payments dependent on health and income I can no longer count on. The focus shifts from long-term optimization to short-term financial stability.
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Even if the divorce is fair and amicable, retirement can look very different than planned. Health events can happen quickly and force us to make financial decisions earlier than expected. It’s difficult to plan for every eventuality, especially later in life when timing and flexibility are more important.
For seniors approaching retirement after divorce, there are some practical considerations that can help reduce surprises:
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Schedule a comprehensive health exam. Identifying risks early can help inform financial decisions and reduce unexpected costs.
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Reevaluate insurance coverage. Premiums, deductibles, and out-of-pocket costs typically increase in your 60s, and a single medical event can significantly increase costs.
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Stay liquid. Keeping some money in savings can help manage medical expenses or changes in income without forcing early withdrawals.
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Think carefully about housing options. A home that works today may not meet future needs, and the cost of moving later may be high.